Ladylike Reprise

There is an expanded column on Being Ladylike at Catholic Exchange today.  To recap here, I've talked about being a lady here and here. There is a lively discussion of modesty at the 4real Forums.Here's one on being modern and modest.  And there is one on combatting frumpiness (because ladylike modesty is NOT synonymous with frumpiness).  Helen reminds us that there is beauty in virtue. Kim gives some practical pointers for turning those denim pants into skirts. Mary Ellen Bork addresses feminity in her no-nonsense, eloquent style here. Rita Davidson offers a kit of resources on modesty in light of Church teaching .Colleen Hammond has written a book on Dressing with Dignity. Alice Von Hildebrand encourages women to escape a trap by imitating Mary's strength and humility.

Donna Marie initiated a conversation about ways our homes honor the Blessed Mother. We've discussed what it looks like to live in the Domestic Church, an idea that Thomas Howard fleshes out more completely in Splendor in the Ordinary.  And all that talking, and thinking, and cleaning, and re-organizing has led to a full-blown Carnival of Elegant Simplicity!

So, there you go!  Fix your morning tea, prop your feet up, and point and click and read up.  Then, you have a whole weekend to implement what you prayerfully discern God is asking with regards to feminity and loveliness!

A Book Meme

My friend Dawn, at By Sun and Candlelight, tagged me with a Book Meme!

1. ONE BOOK  TWO BOOKS THAT CHANGED YOUR LIFE:

The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding (I prefer my tattered 4th Edition)

Educating the Wholehearted Child

2. ONE BOOK THAT YOU'VE READ MORE THAN ONCE:

I Believe in Love

3. ONE BOOK YOU'D WANT ON A DESERT ISLAND:

The Bible

4. ONE BOOK THAT MADE YOU LAUGH:

Niagara Falls or Does It?

5. ONE BOOK THAT MADE YOU CRY:

Across the Puddingstone Dam by Melissa Wiley 

6. ONE BOOK THAT YOU WISH HAD BEEN WRITTEN

How to be Perpetually Cheerful and Patient on Little or No Sleep

7. ONE BOOK THAT YOU WISH HAD NEVER BEEN WRITTEN

Sex and the Single Girl by Helen Gurley Brown (Hat tip to Courtney)

8. ONE BOOK  TWO BOOKS THAT YOU'RE CURRENTLY READING:

What Went Wrong with Vatican II

Swimming with Scapulars (again)

9. ONE BOOK YOU'VE BEEN MEANING TO READ:

Keep it Simple

10. TAG FIVE OTHERS:

Let's hear some younger voices:

Van Goal

Luke's Blog

Courtney

And some bookworms I don't think have been tagged yet:

Cottage Blessings

Starry Sky Ranch

Thank you, Dawn! This was a lot of fun!

What I did with my computer vacation...

On Monday evening, as we were eating dinner, we saw a huge bolt of lightning out our sunroom window.  With it, a simulataneous clap of thunder and...the ringing of a toy microwave and telephone??

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Yep.  Apparently, there was so much static in the air that it jolted the battery-operated toys in Katie's kitchen into action.  We thought it was pretty cool until it occurred to me that a jolt that could hit the play kitchen just might have hit the computer in the room above it.  Michael went up to check and he didn't come back down promptly.  I took that as a good sign--must have gotten distracted by his e-mail.  No...he was up there trying to get the computer to even turn on. Long story short, the computer was fried and so was the cable modem.  We fought with the cable company (who graciously said they'd be out August 30th) and Michael spent hours fetching, installing and troubleshooting a whole new system.  And here I am!

So what did I do with my computer vacation?  I remembered that Meredith had invited us to celebrate our kitchens and I turned my attention to making it something worth celebrating.I started by clearing the clutter off the refrigerator door.  I don't really like a lot of busyness there. I've got some magnets of liturgical art that I love (they were a gift from a friend) and some others that are tiny little miniatures of the art from my aunt's collection, hanging in the gallery that bears my uncle's name. These are paintings I want my children to recognize immediately as familiar friends.  That's about the extent of my "Fridgeschooling." I've also got a MomAgenda family calendar and a posting of the family rules and a current chore chart for this week.

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I had some art work up but, truthfully, there is not room for everybody's art at one time and it was always getting caught up in the doors. So, I looked around for an alternative.  My eyes lit upon a woebegone fabric sample hanging from the blinds in the sunroom (which is our eating space).  Hmmm...make drapes before the Carnival?  Nah, it's been 4 years since I hung that swatch; I don't want to rush things.  Instead, I taped artwork up to create a valance. Well, I didn't, but Michael and Christian did. Now, the children's art is beautifully displayed, safe from rips and tears and it adds a happy note to the kitchen! (All the photos are thumbnails--click to see it bigger.)

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The table in the sunroom happened a year or so ago.  The eating space in the kitchen proper is precisely in the middle of the house.  Our table is large and there are lots of chairs around it.  I felt like I was always bumping into it.  I also didn't really like looking at the prep mess while eating dinner.  So, we moved it into the sunroom.  While disscussing Simple Elegance, Molly mentioned angling a table.  I tried it and it's so much nicer that way! Before moving the table into the sunroom, that room was mostly a play space.  My children like to play close to me and I'm usually in the kitchen.  We've left the play kitchen and some baby doll accoutrements and in the corner are a wooden castle, some trolls, a basket of wooden train tracks and trains, and some Lincoln Logs.

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There is not an abundance of cabinet space in my kitchen, so we hung a pot rack above the center island.  I also use the high counter between the kitchen and sunroom to display and store stoneware serving pieces. My sink has a beautiful, wide view of the backyard and I frequently stand there watching family soccer games while cooking and cleaning up.

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My kitchen sits squarely in the middle of my house, a fact that rather irritates me sometimes because it's rarely as neat as it appears here.  But there is no denying that it's the heart of my home!