Marilyn has a thought-provoking post up with lots of links. She has us thinking about how we affect our daughters' self images for life, particularly with regard to their bodies. In part, she writes:
Watch What You Eat, Yes. But Also Watch What You Say and Do Around Your Daughterwhere Jennifer Huget talks about how our daughters are influenced by
the signals we send out about our views of our bodies - that we are the
role models for our daughters and will influence their body image.
There is a quote that struck me: "But Chadwick notes that we all
learn our self-image lessons from our own mothers (and grandmothers)
and have to work hard not to pass damaging lessons on to our
daughters". The author is talking about Dara Chadwick's new books, You'd Be So Pretty If . . .: Teaching Our Daughters to Love Their Bodies-Even When We Don't Love Our Own
and
An Innocent Word Can Be A Heavy Burden
where the author states how a mother's comments can cause a daughter to
have a poor body image, and set her on the path of eating disorders.
Quote: "Not all eating disorders are triggered by parents, but
experts increasingly recognize the dangerous role of thinness-obsessed
adults".
A healthy body image is an invaluable gift our daughters take with them into adulthood. Click over and read the rest.