Packing them off to College? A good cry. {And a Giveaway}

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There is a phenonomenon happening in the housewares/linens department of every Target in the country. Just watch. There are middle-aged moms and late-teenaged kids in every aisle. The moms are fighting tears and trying to be overly cheerful. Some of the kids are, too. Or, perhaps, neither party is speaking to the other and they both are determinedly shopping with pursed lips. Target is a painful place this time of year. My children will attest to my all-out sobbing in the aisle with the graphing calculators a couple years ago.

I bumped into my friend Khristie in the linens department last spring right after acceptance letters were received. We got a headstart on the sobfest and stood there for nearly an hour crying talking. It's weird what linens can do to moms letting go. I think it's partly because we've so intentionally worked to create for them a nurturing home. (Um, I just made myself cry reading that link.)

We want so much to tuck ourselves into that trunk--to be sure they'll eat right, change their sheets, do their laundry, study, stay out of trouble. Oh, please, please stay out of trouble! Instead, we send them off without us and we stay home and pray in a way that we've never prayed before.

The kind folks at Catholic Embroidery are offering a little something you can tuck into that trunk as a reminder of your prayers--and a reminder for the college-bound to say theirs. 

It's two Standard (32" by 22") or Queen (38'" by 22") white 100% Egyptian cotton pillowcase boasting a 3" hem that are embroidered with a Mini Celtic Cross design along with an excerpt from St. Patrick's Breastplate: "Christ Before Me ~ Christ Behind Me". 

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Sweet reminder. Sweet dreams.

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 To qualify for the giveaway, simply leave a comment on the Catholic Embroidery blog or become a follower on their Facebook page and then come back here and tell me you did it. And if you're having meltdowns in the linen departments at Target, you can tell me that, too. I'm likely to cry with you and I promise, promise, promise to pray for you!

Catholic Girl's Almanac

Mary Beth asked if she could blog in this space today. Why, of course! That's a lovely idea.

I find myself:

::noticing God's glory

I'm not sure it fits into this category but I think it's amazing when a 3-year-old really believes she can be one of the Olympians when she grows up. 

::listening to 

Stephen telling Sarah again that the back of the couch is NOT a balance beam.

 

::clothing myself in 

Denim shorts and a navy blue lace top.

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::reading

Joy in the Ordinary. I'll admit that my mom wanted me to read this one and I wasn't enthused. I was in a weird niche of not wanting to read. But, I loved this book! Review to come, I promise.

 

::thinking and thinking

about a post I want to write for this blog. Someone wrote mom and asked if I could write a post about something that is close to my heart. I want to make sure it won't offend anyone or hurt feelings.  I want it to be real and helpful.

::giving thanks for

a weekend where nothing seemed rushed and I could have a night with a friend for frozen yogurt and a night to eat out with grandparents. Both things I needed.

 

::pondering prayerfully

For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.

~Audrey Hepburn


::carefully cultivating rhythm

This week will launch me into dance from 9am-1pm; and then again from 6pm-9pm.  I'm completely and totally ready for it. I've missed having a lot of dance. 


::creating by hand

I'm not too into sewing but I do love sharpie-ing (that's definitely not a word). So, since we have a white iPhone case, I think I'll try this.

 

::learning lessons in

Friendships. When you have to learn to let them go and when you have to learn to hold onto them. Also, how to pick the right ones.

 

::begging prayers

for all the people who have joined our weekend prayer community

for all the kids trying to figure out what their faith means to them.

for the kids contemplating college choices.

for Patrick, who was the first to arrive at a very bad car accident last week. He stopped to help and he has been haunted ever since.

 

::crafting in the kitchen 

Mom is trying to encourage me to give up wheat. I know she's right, but that's not an easy task.

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::loving the moments

At dance. Sure, there's drama, but there's drama anywhere you go with teenaged girls. And I love these girls. They're always as happy to be there as I am and I'm happy to see them.

 

::planning for the week ahead

Michael is still in London; he's doing cool things. I hope you're checking up on him.

Christian and Patrick will be working and driving to dance I'm certain.

I'll spend most of my time at dance this week and when I'm not at dance I'll be sleeping, I hope.

You'll find Stephen and Nick watching some sport or another on NBC for the Olympics. Nick will mention every five minutes that ESPN would have done a far better job. And if you don't find them there, they'll be playing their own sport.

Katie is loving that dance has returned and she is taking every opportunity she finds to be in the studio working hard on pirouettes.

Karoline and Sarah will either be playing Gabby Douglas on the balance beam that Hilary gave them a while ago or playing Missy Franklin in the pool. 

::life through my lens

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All pictures from my Instagram. 

Linking with the other ladies at Catholic Woman's Almanac.

Lord, Hear Our Prayer

World communion

The internet is a formidable force for bringing the comfort and consolation and hope of the Lord to all of us. It can be an incredibily powerful medium for community. There is an unfathomable resource for prayer here. We have on the 'net the privilege of praying for people and of being witness to the miracles brought forth when fervent, faith-fulled people pray for one another.

Let's be that community of hope and faith for one another.

How about this idea? What if I pop in here every weekend, share Sunday's gospel and talk a wee bit about how we can live it and pray it in our homes? And then you tell me how we can pray for you that week? Deal?

{And please, do return and let us know how prayer is bearing fruit.}

 

Gospel

Jn 6:24-35

When the crowd saw that neither Jesus nor his disciples were there,
they themselves got into boats
and came to Capernaum looking for Jesus.
And when they found him across the sea they said to him,
"Rabbi, when did you get here?"
Jesus answered them and said,
"Amen, amen, I say to you,
you are looking for me not because you saw signs
but because you ate the loaves and were filled.
Do not work for food that perishes
but for the food that endures for eternal life,
which the Son of Man will give you.
For on him the Father, God, has set his seal."
So they said to him,
"What can we do to accomplish the works of God?"
Jesus answered and said to them,
"This is the work of God, that you believe in the one he sent."
So they said to him,
"What sign can you do, that we may see and believe in you?
What can you do?
Our ancestors ate manna in the desert, as it is written:
He gave them bread from heaven to eat.?
So Jesus said to them,
"Amen, amen, I say to you,
it was not Moses who gave the bread from heaven;
my Father gives you the true bread from heaven.
For the bread of God is that which comes down from heaven
and gives life to the world."

So they said to him,
"Sir, give us this bread always."
Jesus said to them,
"I am the bread of life;
whoever comes to me will never hunger,
and whoever believes in me will never thirst."

Think

"The many wonders of creation can only fill us with astonishment and admiration. But when we speak of the most holy Eucharist we can say that here is to be found the miracle of divine love for us.... Has there been, or will there ever be, a nobler or more magnanimous love than that which He has shown us in the sacrament of love?"

- St. John Vianney

 

 

Act

After communion this week, when everyone else hurries out to the donuts and coffee, stay. Stay and pray. St. Alphonsus Liguori once wrote that “there is no prayer more dear to God than that which is made after communion.” He continued that our prayers after communion are so very precious “because they are then animated by the presence of Jesus Christ, who is united to our souls.”

Pray

Prayer after Communion

Stay with me, Lord, for it is necessary to have You present so that I do not forget You. You know how easily I abandon You. 

Stay with me Lord, because I am weak, and I need Your strength, so that I may not fall so often. 

Stay with me Lord, for You are my life, and without You, I am without fervor. 

Stay with me Lord, for You are my light, and without you, I am in darkness. 

Stay with me Lord, to show me Your will. 

Stay with me Lord, so that I hear Your voice and follow You. 

Stay with me Lord, for I desire to love you very much, and always be in Your Company. 

Stay with me Lord, if You wish me to be faithful to You. 

Stay with me Lord, for as poor as my soul is, I want it to be a place of consolation for You, a nest of Love. 

Stay with me, Jesus, for it is getting late, and the day is coming to a close, and life passes, death, judgment, eternity approach. It is necessary to renew my strength, so that I will not stop along the way and for that, I need You. It is getting late and death approaches. I fear the darkness, the temptations, the dryness, the cross, the sorrows. O how I need You, my Jesus, in this night of exile. 

Stay with me tonight, Jesus, in life with all its dangers, I need You. 

Let me recognize You as Your disciples did at the breaking of bread, so that the Eucharistic Communion be the light which disperses the darkness, the force which sustains me, the unique joy of my heart. 

Stay with me Lord, because at the hour of my death, I want to remain united to you, if not by Communion, at least by grace and love. 

Stay with me Jesus, I do not ask for divine consolation because I do not merit it, but the gift of Your presence, oh yes, I ask this of You. 

Stay with me Lord, for it is You alone I look for, Your Love, Your Grace, Your Will, Your Heart, Your Spirit, because I love You and ask no other reward but to love You more and more. 

With a firm love, I will love You with all my heart while on earth and continue to love You perfectly during all eternity. Amen. 

~St. Padre Pio

 

Ten Ways to Make it a Good Day.

After a string of really bad days, I sat down to make a list of ten sure-fire ways to work towards making the day a good one.

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Nail the prayer and exercise routine from dawn to bedtime.  

 

 

Candlelight

Make a good meal and eat it at the table, all together; candelight is a good thing.

 

 

Laundry

Keep the laundry caught up or conquer the backed up laundry mountain.

 

 

Sewing

Sew something, anything.

 

 

Bookshelves

Read stories to my little ones-- the more, the better.

 

 

Rubberduck

Make bathtime relaxed and happy for everyone.

 

 

Necklace

Use online time with discretion, sparingly. Take my time online. *

 

 

Joy

Choose joy, especially when it's not the easy choice. 

     

     

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    Curl up and read a good book for mama. (...and maybe knit, too. I really miss knitting.)

     

     

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    Um. Curl up with him;-).

     

    *Like the necklace? Me, too! You can shop for them here:-)

Get Back on the Horse

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Courage is being scared to death...and saddling up anyway.  ~John Wayne

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One of the earliest religious disappointments in a young girl's life devolves around her unanswered prayers for a horse.  ~Phyllis Theroux

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Riding a horse is not a gentle hobby, to be picked up and laid down like a game of solitaire. It is a grand passion. It seizes a person whole and, once it has done so, he will have to accept that his life will be radically changed. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

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He saw me coming out of the barn with the tack and he bit me. I showed him. Later that day, I saddled him up and I rode him. ~Katie Foss 

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The horses paw and prance and neigh,
Fillies and colts like kittens play,
And dance and toss their rippled manes
Shining and soft as silken skeins;...
~Oliver Wendell Holmes

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The daughter who won't lift a finger in the house is the same child who cycles madly off in the pouring rain to spend all morning mucking out a stable. ~Samantha Armstrong