Sometimes it's more fun to talk

I haven't had much time to blog lately, and I do miss these pages and the chance to let my fingers collect my thoughts. As I settle into our fall routine, I'm hoping to have more moments at the keyboard. I did find myself sharing a cuppa with some fine ladies last week, though, chatting, not writing.

Danielle and I had the opportunity to sit and talk with Lisa Hendey for a Catholic Moments podcast. We shared thoughts on balancing a writer's work with family life and we talked about how tthe books encourage and enhance a closer relationship with Christ amidst the busyness of mom life.

With Pat Gohn, Among Women, we had a long talk about Small Steps, the writing process, and particularly about diligence--developing the virtue in ourselves and our children. We laughed a bit and yep, I even cried (a podcast first for me). It was so nice to spend the morning among women, in the company of friends. Please listen. I hope you're blessed!

Preparing to Celebrate the Feast of St. Pio of Pietrelcina

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“Pray, hope, and don’t worry! Worry is useless. God is merciful and will hear your prayer. Prayer is the best weapon we have; it is the key to God’s heart. You must speak to Jesus not only with your lips but with your heart. In fact, on certain occasions, you should speak to Him only with your heart.”--St. Pio

Padre Pio is one of those saints who found me when I was pregnant with Sarah Anne. Someone suggested to me that I beg his intercession for Sarah's safe delivery and mine. When I started looking for a "Padre Pio" novena to pray before his late September feast, I learned that he prayed the Sacred Heart novena daily for the intentions of all who asked his prayers. So, I began that devotion nine days before his feast.

On the Feast of St. Pio, I hemorrhaged, and ended up in the hospital on total bedrest, anti-contraction medications being pumped furiously into my body. By baby was 28 weeks in utero. Needless to say, Padre Pio and I were off to a bit of a rocky start. But I had several novenas going simultaneously at the time and I truly did have a sense of peace that this was all part of the grand plan. The NICU nurse practitioner who ultimately ended up caring for Sarah said that she was sure I was going to deliver that night. I never thought it a remote possibility.

September 23rd, the feast of Padre Pio, is also the day that the Saint Therese novena begins. For me, that's a beautiful connection.

We'll pray the Sacred Heart novena in preparation for the feast.

Padre Pio was a Capuchin, a whimsical reason we include cappuccino in our tea time treats. Usually, I blend some bottled Frappucino with ice and serve with straws or I mix ice and instant espresso and milk in the blender. And "cappuccino" cookies make a nice accompaniment.

  • 1/3 cup butter
  • 1/2 cup packed brown sugar
  • 1/2 cup white sugar
  • 1 egg
  • 1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla extract
  • 1 tablespoon milk
  • 2 cups all-purpose flour
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1/4 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1/4 teaspoon baking powder
  • 2 tablespoons instant coffee powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon nutmeg
  • 1/2 teaspoon cloves
  1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees F (205 degrees C). Line baking sheets with parchment paper.
  2. Beat the shortening, brown sugar, white sugar, egg, vanilla and milk until fluffy.
  3. Dissolve the coffee powder in a little water (just enough to get rid of the granules). Add to the wet ingredients.
  4. Stir the flour, salt, baking soda, baking powder, spices.  Add to sugar mixture and mix thoroughly.
  5. Chocolate chips can be added here. Just saying;-)
  6. Shape dough in 1 inch balls. If it's too soft, chill it for a while. Place balls 2 inches apart on prepared baking sheets. Flatten to 1/8 inch thickness with fork or glass dipped in sugar.
  7. Bake at 400 degrees F (205 degrees CV) for 8 to 10 minutes until lightly browned.

Efficacious Novena to the Sacred Heart

O my Jesus, You have said, ‘Truly I say to you, ask and it will be given you, seek and you will find, knock and it will be opened to you.’ Behold, I knock, I seek and ask for the grace of... Our Father... Hail Mary... Glory be to the Father... Sacred Heart of Jesus, I place all my trust in you.

II. O my Jesus, You have said, ‘Truly I say to you, if you ask anything of the Father in my name, He will give it to you.’ Behold, in Your name, I ask the Father for the grace of... Our Father... Hail Mary... Glory be to the Father... Sacred Heart of Jesus, I place all my trust in you.

III. O my Jesus, You have said, ‘Truly I say to you, heaven and earth will pass away but my words will not pass away.’ Encouraged by Your infallible words, I now ask for the grace of... Our Father... Hail Mary... Glory be to the Father... Sacred Heart of Jesus, I place all my trust in you.

O Sacred Heart of Jesus, for whom it is impossible not to have compassion on the afflicted, have pity on us poor sinners and grant us the grace which we ask of You, through the Sorrowful and Immaculate heart of Mary, Your tender mother and ours.

Hail, holy Queen, Mother of Mercy!Our life, our sweetness, and our hope! To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve, to thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley, of tears.Turn, then, most gracious advocate,thine eyes of mercy toward us; and after this our exile show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb Jesus; O clement, O loving, O sweet virgin Mary. Pray for us, O holy Mother of God That we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ.

St. Joseph, foster father of Jesus, pray for us  

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Daybook

Outside My Window

It is still dark.

I am Listening to

The hum of the refrigerator and nothing else.

I am Wearing

A t-shirt and boxers—pjs;-).

I am so Grateful for

~a daughter who conspires to celebrate the day her family began (Thanks, Mary Beth, for anniversary sweetness;-)

~starting the week in a fairly tidy house

~soccer moms (and soccer dads, too)

~come to think of it, soccer siblings, too

~regular updates from Patrick in Spain

~the gifted educators who have published excellent curricular material that has blessed our new school year

~homemade miso soup

~grocery store carnations

~lunch date on a Sunday

I'm Pondering

Eat Food. Not too much. Mostly plants. ~Michael Pollan

I am Reading.

I just finished a pre-publication copy of a very good parenting book.

And

Food Rules by Michael Pollan

I am Thinking

About the coming weekend.I’m so looking forward to having company here.

I am Creating

A new ‘do. Well, I’m not really creating it, but I do desperately need a haircut and I’m considering asking for something different. Appointment this morning. We’ll see.

On my iPod

Mossflower. We finished Redwall over a week ago and spent some time talking about whether we’d listen to another or the boys would be on their own to binge through the series. As a compromise, we’re going to listen to the prequel and they’re going to read the sequel. This audio version is so well done. The author narrates in a rich, deep, lovely accent. It’s a full cast audio that does truly bring these books to life.

Towards a Real Education

I can say with all sincerity that we are off to our best start ever.I’m rocking the Charlotte Mason Organizer to its fullest potential. The children seem to understand that if we’re going to keep up the pace of soccer and ballet that they want, we have to use those morning hours to their fullest. They are working hard and genuinely seem to like that resources I’ve chosen for them.

I’m happy to report that each and every one of my children spent a full hour or more working on math every day last week (even Labor Day—and we had a soccer tournament final that day). I attribute this astounding fact to the warm embrace our family has given to Dreambox and Aleks. They love it. They are definitely learning something. I am not a math teacher. I am grateful for a computer that is. Hooray!

Towards Rhythm and Beauty

I have stressed and stressed over The Schedule. I have lost countless hours of sleep trying to make it all work, to figure out how to be at one opportunity east of me, one west of me, and another north of me at the same time, in order to meet the needs (and wants) of different children. And then something amazing happened. I handed it all over to God and watched in awe as He worked it out in ways I could have never imagined. I started to write about it here, but it’s gotten too long, so I’ll save it for a post of its own. Hopefully soon.

To Live the Liturgy

It’s nearly time to begin our preparations for feasts of the fall.

I am Hoping and Praying

~for Patrick, who is in Spain this week. He plays the Spanish U17 national team tomorrow and Thursday.

~for the traveler who will come to stay with us this weekend. I pray her time here is everything she hopes it will be. And then more.

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In the Garden

The mums are starting to pop. The petunias look a little beaten up after some serious wind last week, but I’m going to leave them in a while longer, yet. Tomatoes are looking a bit bedraggled. Roses are beautiful.

Around the House

I still haven’t created a new chore chart. I’m using the “see a need, call the first person who comes to mind” method.Mary Beth and I thoroughly organized the little girls’ room last week. That’s probably a post in itself, too…

From the Kitchen

I’ve temporarily abandoned my cycle menu while we experiment with some new recipes. This week, we’re eating

Sunday: chili (with sweet potatoes added-it was yummy)

Monday: chicken and white bean salad

Tuesday: Maple Dijon pork chops, Caesar salad, roasted broccoli

Wednesday: Chilled Linguine with Gorgonzola and Basil

Thursday: sandwiches to go—we’re eating at the park.

Friday: Cowboy beans and cilantro lime rice

Saturday: grilled sandwiches before Michael’s game

Almost all from the Whole Foods Market Cookbook

One of My Favorite Things

Happy Anniversaries.

Sarah Annie this week

After nearly two years of living in our room, she has discovered “her room.” She could easily spend several hours a day playing with the dollhouse in there. And she prefers to sleep in “her” bed, too, much to her daddy’s chagrin. It’s sweet to see her moving into the territory of her sisters and to see them envelope her in their world.

Gonna miss her, though.

Gosh, there’s a lot of missing going on around here, isn’t there?

A Few Plans for the Rest of the Week

Hmmm: haircut; ballet planning meeting with dear friends, the kickoff game of Monday Afternoon Football season, two playdates in the park, much soccer, ballet, and the hum of busy excitement as we prepare for Saturday’s trip to the airport to meet our guest.

Picture thoughts:

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My anniversary lunch: a Sweetheart Roll at our favorite sushi bar. Isn't it beautiful? (Cell phone photo)

{this moment}

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{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words -capturing a moment from the week. (This moment is from this week, September 12th, to be exact, 23 years ago. I took a photo of a page from my wedding album) A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you're inspired to do the same, visit Soulemama to leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.