Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
What is God saying as you pray about this quote? Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God." (Pope John Paul II).
Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word "huge" when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.